DISAGREE – – – OR – – – DISRESPECT

Family – – –
Members of a family will disagree.
If disagree means disrespect, there is trouble.
Disagree does not have to become disrespect.
Disagree must not equal disrespect.

If only—if couples could hear this before they get married.
If only—if married couples could get this before they get in trouble—trouble just because they assume disagree equals disrespect whenever there is conflict.

Saying ‘yes’ and ‘repeat after me’ at the altar may be too late, meaningless, minds a million miles away.
Some things have to be decided before marriage.
Some things need to be promised, spoken, written before marriage.

1- Decide to be faithful in the marriage* until death.
2- Decide to love the wife*, respect the husband*, until death.
3- Decide to not let disagreement endanger faithfulness, love, and respect.
4- Decide to put disagreement in a cage, where it can’t touch the marriage with doubt about faithfulness, love, and respect.
5- Decide whether to feed the disagreement in the cage and make it stronger—or dismantle the disagreement. Save any useful parts and throw the others away.
6- Decide that unresolved disagreements will be decided by the husband—already decided together to not let disagreement endanger faithfulness, love, and respect.

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Most couples getting married—caught up in love—dream and imagine that faithfulness for both*, and love for the wife*, and respect for the husband*, will fall in place and last forever because they care so much for each other, now.

Now—hmmm !
Nobody knows what is ahead after ‘now’ is over.
Rarely ? or Never ? does ‘now’ last forever !

So, what is a couple to do that don’t have a clue ?
So, what is a couple to think when they don’t think about this ?
So, what is a couple to talk about when they don’t want to talk about it ?

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*”What God has joined together, let no one separate.”
*”Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her . . . Let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself.”
*”Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord . . . Let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
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Now, if you want to learn more about your own heart, to be successful in life and in marriage, there is more, and then a lot more, in The Book from the Creator of life and Inventor of marriage.
Ephesians 5—Read slowly and carefully.
Matthew 19:4-6—Blueprint for marriage.

Please read FIRE PREVENTION on this site.

PSALTY AND THE SINGING SONGBOOK

WARNING: THESE CD’S ARE KNOWN TO RUIN YOUR MOOD

Jesus said we must come to Him just like a little child, or we can’t join His Kingdom.
Now, if Psalty and company don’t get you closer to Jesus like a kid—and, yes, even ruin a bad mood—then you have spiritual wet wood.
(Jesus can fix that too.)
You see, it’s ‘all-in with Jesus’, or it’s nothing.

Merry Christmas 2019,
Dad-Grandpa

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I strongly encourage everyone, anyone with kids or grandkids, to check out samples of Psalty, and order for those you love and want to influence for Jesus, in a fun and catching way.
And, Psalty and Jesus together will get you jumping for joy yourself.

TIME TO . . .

Time to get with God.

Then . . .

+ Get up.

+ Get going.

+ Get breakfast.

+ Get out.

+ Get working.

A WOMAN HAS A RIGHT TO HER OWN BODY

Every woman has a right to her own body when her mother is pregnant with her !

DEVISE

Definition:
concoct; to create or think of by clever use of the imagination

Synonyms:
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib
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How many of those synonyms seem to apply in America today . . . ?

+ politically—
Reread the list, with politics in mind.
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib

+ culturally—
Reread the list, thinking about the cultural tsunami wiping out everything in its path.
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib

+ morally—
Reread the list, observing the moral freefall today.
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib

+ spiritually—
Reread the list, in light of the ‘no man’s land’ with eroding spiritual foundations.
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib

+ financially—
Reread the list, and wonder what we’ve really created.
invent – – – construct – – – design – – – produce – – – manufacture
contrive – – – come up with – – – think up – – – conceive
fabricate – – – drum up – – – hatch – – – cook up – – – make up
envision – – – imagine – – – trump up – – – improvise – – – visualize
dream – – – coin – – – vision – – – fantasize – – – daydream
extemporize – – – picture – – – ad-lib

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I came up with this ‘word for thought’ as I was reflecting on how many Americans ‘revise’ Jesus’ words about money.
I thought to check out if ‘devise’ was a real word that might fit.
WOW !
Fits all over today.

YOU HAVE A BABY !

You have a baby inside, now !
Your baby started living before you knew it.
Your baby started living from conception.
Your baby started growing since conception.
Your baby will keep growing until it is ready to come out.
Your baby will keep growing after it is born.
Your baby will keep growing until it is an adult.
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YOU HAVE A BABY !
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You have a choice,
What do you want ?
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Do you want a living baby ?
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Do you want a dead baby ?
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You have a living baby now.
KEEP YOUR BABY ALIVE !

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(Inspired listening to Jeff Shreve on American Family Radio 3-8-24)

“IT’S NOT ABOUT MONEY” ?

I’m amazed once again to hear financial advisors consistently, at all cost, avoid applying Jesus’ comments about giving it all away.

“That does not literally apply to us.”
“It’s not your money that I want—it’s your heart.”
—–Jesus’ words explained, revised, devised.

So, it’s not about money ?
It’s about heart ?
Really ?

I thought Jesus said, “Where your treasure is, there your heart WILL BE also.”

+ Sounds like money and heart are tied at the hip.
+ Sounds like any attempt to separate is not Biblical.
Can I say my heart is right, and selectively apply only some things God says about money, that confirm my plans ?
+ Sounds like if Jesus told American Christians the one thing they lack is to give it all away to the poor to follow Him, they would “go away sad, because they have great possessions”.
How about sermons on that ! ? ! X
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But you’ll never get anywhere telling them to change their comfortable message about money.

Daddy didn’t get anywhere telling church people what Jesus said about money.

Jesus didn’t get anywhere telling successful (politically, financially), religious leaders to change their ideas about money.

May I strongly suggest reading what Jesus said about money in the Bible—straight from your Bible—not what someone says the Bible says.
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+ Current, American Christian financial teaching . . . is a very narrow, selected part of the Christian experience, at best.
+ Current, American Christian financial teaching . . . applies, at best, to a very narrow slice of Christianity, historically, and worldwide today.

LET IT SNOW! LET IT SNOW! LET IT SNOW!

Since Christianity and Jesus’ relationship to His Church is compared to a husband/wife relationship, I thought I’d try an allegory with the song and the Christian life.

Oh, the weather outside is frightful
— If we live as authentic Jesus followers, we will not be comfortable in this world.
— “In the world you will have tribulation . . .”

But the fire is so delightful
— “. . . be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”
— “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.”

And since we’ve no place to go
— “Who do I have in heaven but You; and there is no one I desire on earth beside You.”
— “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.”

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow
— “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.”

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Man, it doesn’t show signs of stopping
— “Relent, O Lord, how long . . .?”
— “My soul also is greatly troubled; but You, O Lord—how long? Return, O Lord, deliver me.”

And I’ve brought me some corn for popping
— “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.”
— “You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.”

The lights are turned way down low
— “When evening had come, Jesus sat down with the twelve.”
— “When evening had come, He said to them, “Let us cross over to the other side.”
— “Let the lower lights be burning,
Send its beams across the waves.
Some poor wandering seaman
You my rescue, you may save.”

Let it snow, let it snow
— “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.”

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When we finally kiss goodnight
— “Then they all wept freely, and fell on Paul’s neck and kissed him, sorrowing most of all for the words which he spoke, that they would see his face no more.”
— “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.”

How I’ll hate going out in the storm
— “I send you as sheep among wolves; be wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.”
— “Endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus.”

But if you really hold me tight
— “I am with you always.”
— “Those whom You gave me, I have kept, and none of them is lost.”
— The Holy Spirit is the warmest Comforter ever, forever.

All the way home I’ll be warm
— The Holy Spirit is the warmest Comforter ever, forever.
— The river Jordan only chills the body but not the soul.
— Home, Home, Home at last, forever.

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And the fire is slowly dying
— “The love of many will grow cold.”
— “Stir up the gift of God which is in you.”

And, my dear, we’re still goodbyeing
— “Because I said, ‘I Am going away’, sorrow has filled your heart.”
— “I go to the Father, and you no longer see Me.”

But as long as you love me so
— “I have loved you with an everlasting love.”
— “Lo, I Am with you always.”

Let it snow, let it snow, and snow
— “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof.”

RETIREMENT – – – SHORT TERM – – – L O N G TERM

Retirement – – – Short Term
— someday, if you live long enough
— maybe, unless 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 happens
— everybody get ready, if you have enough money
— save, invest, prepare, live for retirement

Retirement – – – Long Term
— one day, no matter how long you live
— definitely, no maybe
— everybody get ready, no matter how much money
— get ready now, or not ? ? ?

WHERE YOU AT ? – – – WHERE YOU HEADED ?

Do you know the answer to the first question ?
Where are you now, in the things that matter in life, “in the things that are for keeps” ?

Do you know the answer to the second question ?
Where are you going in life, and where are you going after life ?

How ? and Where ? do you get answers ?

Most people try to come up with their own answers.
That may work for many of life’s day-to-day decisions, to be successful, to make it another day, year, decade.
But sooner or later, after a number of birthdays, or crises, or close calls, or funerals of friends and family—who can tell you what you really need to know ?

Over and over people have found that the answers are not found where they were looking.
Everyone is looking for God, and how to please Him.
In desperation, people make up ideas, religions, rituals, and behavior to get right with God.
For one thing, they can’t all be right.
So, one must be right—different than all the rest.

Yes, there is one true God.
And, He told us, in writing, Who He is, and exactly where we are, and where we’re headed—and our condition is not pretty.
But, He told us, in writing and in action, how He fixed that.

“God loved the world so much, that He gave His only dear Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life.”

Jesus in the Bible is the answer, the only way to God.
“I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life; no one comes to God the Father except through Me.”

You can stop searching—you’ve found what you’re looking for.
Talk to Jesus, believe what the Bible says about Him , and believe what He says in the Bible (the two verses above).

Tell Him, “God, be merciful to me a sinner”, and Jesus says you will go home justified before God today.

Where you at ? – – – I’m a forgiven sinner.
Where you headed ? – – – I’m going to heaven.