HELICOPTER PARENTING – – – BY GOD ?

We recoil at the description of helicopter parenting.

Perhaps that is why we resist the thought of God literally running every detail of our life.

How can Jesus’ relationship with His Father show how we can relate with our Father ?
The same Father !


Personal, prompting this article–
Psalm 90 is a bit hard, unless you’ve been there, unless you’re there.
God sends stuff.
God sends a boatload.
And more.
And you ask—and I ask,
Why all this ?
Why now, after all these years ?
☆ What I have learned ?☆
What have I not learned ?
There is still hope !
Something I wrote over 15 years ago, still ringing true today:
“What I don’t deserve is the goodness of God graciously sending me consequences for my sin to lead me to repentance.”

That is helicopter parenting by God !

Is anything off-limits for God in our lives, in my life ?
Re-worded—Anything God can’t do in my life ?
Re-worded—Anything I don’t want God to do in my life ?


We may say–
There are some things I have to do, that God might not.
We may say–
God gave me a brain, to figure out some things myself.

Sounds so American, to Americans.

Sounds so arrogant, to God.

I want to get something done today.
And–
God wants to get something done today.

What does it take for the two to match ?
Which one has to move ?

“Have Your own way, Lord.
Have Your own way.
You are the potter;
I am the clay.

Mold me and make me
After Your will,
While I am waiting,
Yielded and still.”

“THE BIBLE DOES NOT MEAN . . .” ?

Be wary and very skeptical of any teaching on a Bible passage that starts with saying what it doesn’t mean.

I’ve heard that a lot, and it bothers me, like giving an apology or disclaimer for the Bible, so it’s not so harsh or offensive.

It’s like we want and expect the Bible to be more compatible with our thinking than it sounds at first reading.

We must set aside what we believe the Bible should say when it says something different than our ideas.

God’s Word is written to confront us, before it can comfort us—to show what’s wrong between us, before it can create what is right between us.

We are called to preach The Word, without obligation to compatibility.