In all my interactions with others nowadays, there is an assumption and expectation of functioning like always, when I know that is simply not the case anymore.
It is difficult to reconcile life as normal, that others want to see, and still count on—and life as I know it (losing ground), that others don’t want to see and can’t count on as in the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So the alternative is to start pretending more and more, to carry on life as in the past as long as possible—all the while knowing it isn’t real, and it’s not real living.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There comes a dreaded or feared reality when others finally recognize and label you with some “condition” so they can talk about “it”.
That is worse because you become the “it”.
The worst is awareness of talk about you, which most surely will feel demeaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And all along you just want[ed] someone to believe you, accept you, and relate with you where you are—not what they hope, wish, expect, pretend, so they can cope with (or ignore) their their own life issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And, you certainly want to avoid turning inward and focused on no one understanding—when your heart’s mission is to unselfishly make a difference in others with your wisdom from living.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nowadays it seems no one under 50? has time or patience to step in the shoes of seniors, with struggles—and with much to offer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is much harder for over-busy, over-loaded, over-scheduled younger generations today to be content spending time—TIME—with older folks just to absorb good stuff gained through decades of living.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rather, they are more likely to apply the lense of their ‘got it together’ generation and ‘much too fast life’—wanting quick answers that they will accept by pre-set default.
They don’t have time to wrestle through issues in life like older folks did, to come to convictions and foundation principles to stand firm on, through difficult, rough, hard times, like today, and the uncertain days ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Where is there room for those in 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, to find change in their life, from time spent with seniors ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wisdom is so much more than just an interesting story of someone who has lived longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Bible is full of wisdom, and so are the older ones among us who have walked with the Lord and His Word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mary chose “the one thing needful”, sitting at the feet of Jesus and listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I urge the reader to do the same, and sit with a senior, and listen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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