{"id":5763,"date":"2023-09-07T13:14:49","date_gmt":"2023-09-07T18:14:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/?p=5763"},"modified":"2023-09-27T14:12:25","modified_gmt":"2023-09-27T19:12:25","slug":"stayed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/?p=5763","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;. . . STAYED . . .&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Obviously I&#8217;m quoting something, and we don&#8217;t usually say &#8220;stayed&#8221;.<br>Let me first comment on the most common use of the word &#8220;stay&#8221;, and then apply the full quotation from the title.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Stay&#8221; is a universal command by dog owners to tell their dogs to stay where they are until instructed otherwise.<br>And &#8220;stay&#8221; is universally learned and obeyed by &#8216;man&#8217;s best friend&#8217; because they trust and want to please their master.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The command to stay is in a separate category from the other common words of instruction that are taught to dogs.<br>Sit, come, fetch, roll over&#8212;all involve action on the dog&#8217;s part.<br>Stay&#8212;that often calls for something more in the relationship between dog and master, something that may call for long-term obedience, something that may not include understanding why&#8212;that calls for trust.<br>Stay&#8212;trust&#8212;waiting&#8212;doing nothing&#8212;focused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My border collie, Buddy, is close to fourteen (a rescue at one), and in our long time together we&#8217;ve grown very close, and continue getting closer.<br>I appreciate him more, and I thank God for him often, and we understand each other in new ways as we both experience our senior years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust&#8212;in Buddy&#8217;s younger years trust was demonstrated hundreds of times when I had to leave him at the front gate a quarter mile from the house.<br>As I got out of my van to open the gate, Buddy was always filled with hope that he might go along to my job.<br>If I just said the magic word &#8220;with&#8221; (part of the line &#8220;Buddy, want to go with me?&#8221;), he exploded and headed for the van door.<br>But most of the time (and more so now as he is older) I had to tell him, &#8220;I have to go, and you have to stay.&#8221;<br>Then, when I got out of my van to close the gate, I told him the same thing again, he accepted it, and I knelt down and hugged him and talked to him with an extended, endearing good-by ritual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many times Buddy was sitting at the gate when I came home.<br>Other times he would recognize the sound of my van half a mile away and meet me at the gate when I drove up.<br>But the ultimate faithfulness, which breaks my heart, is the report of times that Buddy &#8220;stayed&#8221; at that gate all day in cold rain, waiting for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That I don&#8217;t deserve&#8212;and it compels me to make it up to him any way I can, greeting him heartily and massaging him just the way he likes.<br>Buddy&#8217;s heart of trust and faithfulness is as strong as ever, but his body is not.<br>He has to be close to me, and he still gets up and follows me whenever I go to another room or out the door.<br>He often stands at the door and watches to see where I am going, and accepts my words again, &#8220;Buddy, I have to go, and you have to stay.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buddy still likes to run, even though his back legs collapse sometimes now from a life-threatening injury years ago, with a miracle recovery, and he joins me if he can when I&#8217;m working at the front of our place.<br>We used to take Buddy lots of places in stores and restaurants as my &#8216;service dog&#8217;, and it hurts now when people ask, &#8220;Where&#8217;s Buddy?&#8221;<br>One of these days they&#8217;ll ask, &#8220;Where&#8217;s Larry?&#8221; (Or maybe they won&#8217;t.)<br>In either case, it moves me to appreciate the blessings of time and strength and work, and dogs&#8212;Buddy, Miles, Goodness, and Mercy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; &#8211; &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And now, to apply the quotation from the title of this article&#8212;<br>&#8220;You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You . . .&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The capitalized &#8220;You&#8221; gives it away, that we&#8217;re talking about God&#8212;stayed on Him, just like my faithful dog, Buddy.<br>When a devoted dog stays, especially for an extended time, it is much more than obedience&#8212;the relationship with the master consumes everything he has to offer.<br>The same with us and God&#8212;obedience is very important, but when He sees our mind focused, stayed, on Him, then He keeps us in perfect peace WHILE WE WAIT, even for an extended time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perfect peace&#8212;mind stayed on God&#8212;stay and wait.<br>Open your Bible and find a ton of verses on waiting.<br>Some to get you started:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Be still, and know that I am God.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.&#8221; (That&#8217;s good for youth, middle age, senior, just like Buddy and me.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;What is required of us . . . to be found faithful.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Be faithful unto death, and I will give you a crown of life.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Trust in the Lord with all your heart . . .&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the middle of writing this, Buddy walks in to my office (75 feet from the house), and I greet him enthusiastically and massage him, and he lies down one foot from my chair.<br>I think that&#8217;s what God wants from us, often.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And now, the rest of the verse:<br>&#8220;You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">because he trusts in You<\/span>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Please read MY GOOD BUDDY AND MIRACLE MILES &#8212; type in the search bar on this site.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you can find it, get an inspiring little hardback book about another Border Collie.<br><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">LESSONS FROM A SHEEPDOG<\/span>&#8212;&#8211;Phillip Keller (true story)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Obviously I&#8217;m quoting something, and we don&#8217;t usually say &#8220;stayed&#8221;.Let me first comment on the most common use of the word &#8220;stay&#8221;, and then apply the full quotation from the title. &#8220;Stay&#8221; 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