{"id":5649,"date":"2023-07-01T18:06:38","date_gmt":"2023-07-01T23:06:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/?p=5649"},"modified":"2023-09-30T14:03:04","modified_gmt":"2023-09-30T19:03:04","slug":"if-you-took-my-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/?p=5649","title":{"rendered":"IF YOU TOOK MY ADVICE . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>? Down and out ?<br>&#8211;You shouldn&#8217;t be there.<br>&#8211;Do this . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? Overloaded with problems ?<br>&#8211;They can be fixed.<br>&#8211;I can tell you . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? Struggles, challenges ?<br>&#8211;Just deal with them, solve them.<br>&#8211;Not talk about them . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? People with continuous troubles ?<br>&#8211;Should be, could be, more like me\/us.<br>&#8211;If they would . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? Hurting, grieving, burdened ?<br>&#8211;Shouldn&#8217;t be there so often, so long.<br>&#8211;I\/we get over it . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? Uncomfortable with inequity of<br>&#8220;some have it easier, some harder&#8221;<br>&#8220;some have more, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some more &#8216;success&#8217;, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some greater IQ, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some more money, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some more trouble, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some more worry, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some more happiness, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some spiritually stronger, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some need God more, some less&#8221;<br>&#8220;some see &#8216;life is no fair&#8217;, some not&#8221; ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211;Some do things right, some don&#8217;t.<br>&#8211;Glad I must be doing it right, got the better deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? Unsuccessful ?<br>&#8211;I can&#8217;t actually help.<br>&#8211;Just look at my example of success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? So different ?<br>&#8211;I&#8217;m uncomfortable.<br>&#8211;If you don&#8217;t follow my example<br>and get it together, I can&#8217;t help you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>? On bottom side of life ?<br>&#8211;I really can&#8217;t relate,<br>so I can&#8217;t really get involved,<br>so I can&#8217;t really help.<br>&#8211;You&#8217;ll have to hit the bottom hard,<br>then you&#8217;ll change and get help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; &#8211; &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, after all the above, my response:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of it is stupid, nonsense, and reasons why so many people keep hurting that don&#8217;t need to, and why so many marriages fail and families wipe out, and why churches, Christians, talk themselves out of helping hurting people&#8212;instead, we should just &#8220;bear one another&#8217;s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hard questions&#8212;harder to give easy answers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>? Down and out ?&#8211;You shouldn&#8217;t be there.&#8211;Do this . . . ? Overloaded with problems ?&#8211;They can be fixed.&#8211;I can tell you . . . ? Struggles, challenges ?&#8211;Just deal with them, solve them.&#8211;Not talk about them . . . ? People with continuous troubles ?&#8211;Should be, could be, more like me\/us.&#8211;If they would [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,2,3,4,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-educational","category-faith_based","category-family","category-financial","category-inspire_lifter"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5649"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5649"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5853,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5649\/revisions\/5853"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awordforthought.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}