DEDICATED TO MY CHILDREN AND THEIR FAMILIES

“Be Strong, and of Good Courage;

For the Lord Your God Is With You Wherever You Go.”

 

You must choose to invite Him to go with you wherever you go.

GIVE IT – – – OR LEAVE IT

If you don’t give it now, you will leave it all soon enough.

Most people have it backwards:

Leave a lot of loot.  Pile it up, stash it away, save it for someday—and die.  Then who gets it?  And what does it do to them?

Leave a lot of loot,

OR

Leave a legacy.

Legacy is not measured in dollars or houses or land.  It is Character—what’s there before and what’s left after all the rest is stripped away.

Legacy is what people would say you did for them when no one knew.

Give it all now, because you will leave it all soon.

MARRIAGE COUNSELING MYTH—

“You wouldn’t go to a doctor to cure your illness if he has the same illness and couldn’t cure it in himself.”

“Don’t go to anyone for marriage counseling if he couldn’t save his own marriage.”

 

Myths—both of them.

 

Instead, the people most effective in helping others are often those who have been through the same fire themselves, even the fire of falling into sin or the fallout from the fire of another’s sin.

FINANCIAL STRATEGY—RISK—NO RISK

All financial strategies have risks, including no strategy.  If you have no  plan and do nothing, you can still lose everything.

So, risk is universal.  It can’t be avoided, only moderated.

Is there any financial strategy then, that has no risk?

Yes, only if you give away 100%.

TRY HARDER—TRY SMARTER—TRY WISER—HOW?

FIRST—TRY HARDER—Just work harder, longer, more.  Most Americans are in this group.  Times are tough.  Times are uncertain.  Hold onto what you’ve got.  If you have a job, do anything to keep it.  If you have to, get a second job.  Sacrifice (even your dreams) to put food on the table and pay bills.  Hope things get better.  Don’t waste your limited time and energy to think about things you can’t do anything about anyway.

SECOND—TRY SMARTER—Work smarter, not harder.  Pick the best advisor and learn how to beat the system.  Get a job that is recession-proof.  Make only guaranteed investments.  Learn from others’ mistakes.  Play your cards right, and you don’t have to sacrifice.  Believe in yourself.  Be confident.  Don’t share all your secrets, and you’ll come out ahead.

THIRD—TRY WISER—Wiser is usually confused with working harder and working smarter and believing in yourself.  Truth is, wiser includes working hard and working smart, but not depending on yourself for success.  “Wiser” is not even a common word these days because it suggests principles from outside ourselves.  It implies learning something from older people—people that younger folks may not consider successful.

This calls for another paragraph.  In America we’ve gone for half a century of progress, mostly smooth sailing, and a universally accepted formula:  get a good job, get good stuff, get good insurance, get a good retirement, it’s yours because you earned it, enjoy it because you deserve it.

There have been very few glitches to this pattern for most people, until now.  We hear that the current economic policies are unsustainable, yet individuals seem to have few choices for fundamental change.  If the whole system blows, we’ll just deal with it then.  In the meantime, we try harder and think we’re trying smarter.

So, where does this leave trying wiser?

If we took time to stop, sit, and listen to older people who learned contentment apart from the current focus on finance, we would be better prepared for the days ahead.  The greatest challenge for older people is finding anyone who will appreciate their wisdom, receive it, and apply it.

If you find a person who has learned to live out “Godliness with contentment,” do everything you can to build a relationship with that person and spend a lot of time with him/her.

If you find a person who can honestly say, “Having food and clothing, let us be content,” choose to let that person influence you.

Greater speed does not contribute to wisdom.

Hard work may contribute to wisdom.

Smart does not equal wise.

“Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.”

“IF THE LORD BE GOD, FOLLOW HIM”

“You choose this day whom you will serve.”

 

“Once to every man and nation

Comes the moment to decide,

In the strife of truth with falsehood,

For the good or evil side;

Some great cause, or God’s Messiah,

Offering each the bloom or blight,

And the choice goes by forever

Twixt that darkness and that light.”

 

“If the Lord be God, follow Him.”

 

“Lead on, O King eternal.

The day of march has come;

Henceforth in fields of conquest

Thy tents shall be our home.

Through days of preparation

Thy grace has made us strong,

And now, O King eternal,

We lift our battle song.”

 

YOUR CHOICE – – – TODAY

LIARS LIE—AND THEN—THEY LIE AGAIN—UNTIL . . .

Liars rarely lie once.

Liars lie until they lie where no one lies again.

Count on it.

Think about the lying tyrants and murdering dictators of history.  They lied until people believed them.  They lied until they died.

How do you stop a liar with power?

You stop a liar with power, with power.

If there is an exception to that in history, please give me their name.

America is an exceptional country, for good reason.  I have written on that.

The growing monster White House dictatorship in Washington is a pack of lies—a snarling wolf pack of lies that started out sounding like sheep with sweet promises.

HAPPY ENDING ? – – – WHEN ?

I believe in a happy ending, but I ask my share of questions that begin with, “When . . . ?”  (to say nothing of all the “Why?” questions I could tell you about)

Life has a lot of tough questions, so what about the ones with missing answers and the ones with “wrong” answers?  (and there’s another question)

First, I can’t make a happy ending happen.

Second, maybe my happiness is not the goal.  (I didn’t just write that, did I ?)

Third, I hate it when preachers and writers [me too] sound like they’re going to answer life’s impossible questions—and then after thirty minutes or thirty pages you can’t remember what they said at the beginning.

Fourth, maybe others’ happiness is my goal.  (I didn’t write that either, did I ?  I’ll tell you one thing for sure, that was not my idea.)  Does happiness happen only when you make others happy, and you forget about pursuing your own?

There’s a lot in the Good Book that says so.

And check out the shortest bottom line on this website—the “UNDERSTATEMENT OF ALL ETERNITY” (11-24-12)—for Christ followers—

WE END ON A POSITIVE NOTE !

 

 

CONGRESS, IMPEACH BHOB* NOW, OR . . .

Congress, impeach BHOB* now, or go home.

Truth is, for all practical purposes, he has already sent you home.

You don’t stop his unconstitutional orders.

And, he’s laughing about it all.

He’s laughing at Congress.

He’s robbing Americans.

He’s twisting the Court.

He’s playing more golf.

 

And Nero fiddled while he burned Rome.  (and blamed it on Christians)

Our turn next.

Our turn now.

 

*Barack Hussein OBama—Say BHHHOB aloud and it sounds like the warning for Christians in the 2008 election: “Beware of sheep’s clothing.”

“GOOD” – – – IT MAY BE FRIDAY, BUT . . .

Good Friday came and went, and so did I—or so I felt.  I could write for weeks now, just on everything this weekend that postponed my writing.

I would say a loaded life has more meaning than a placid one.  Yet we all seem to desire and strive for smooth sailing.

Good Friday, Saturday, and Easter Sunday.

What an ordeal it was for Jesus.

What a deal it is for us.

When you start thinking of God working things together for good, that aren’t good, you can go on and on with examples and lessons, including stuff that still doesn’t make sense.

If we love God, we are eligible for promises that make all the difference in the challenges, trials, and tragedies of this life.

But the promise that I’m thinking of goes even farther concerning eligibility—

If we love God, and are called . . .

That’s telling me that we are not in charge of our destiny, or responsible for making all the details of life fit together.  “Called” means taken out of the mainstream of humanity without permanent meaning, to something higher.

Then there is more to the promise—

If we love God, and are called according to His purpose.

You see, when we try to force meaning into our lives by ourselves, we are never totally successful.  We achieve some goals, but some questions remain—about good and bad, about God and us, about life and death, about “then what?”

Jesus went through everything we do, and more—including pain and injustice and the ultimate questions “Why?” and “If . . .”

He knew the end from the beginning, but that didn’t make it easy.

So why did He do it?  Why did God arrange it?

So we don’t have to.

 

“Life [all of it] is worth the living,

Just because He lives.”

 

“And we know that all things work together for good, to them that love God, who are called according to His purpose.”