2013 – – – SUCCESS – OR – ?

2013—SUCCESS  OR  FAILURE ?

2013—SUCCESS  OR  FAITHFULNESS ?

I will make more money.

I will get out of debt.

I will lose weight.

I will get in shape.

I will get spiritual.

I will find love.

I will build my new shop.

I will give more.

I will help the needy.

I will go to church.

I will get my family on track.

I will keep one resolution.

I will be successful.

I will change the world.

I will get weary on January 1.

I will take today off.

Tomorrow . . . I will . . .

 

I suppose everyone would say the opposite of success is failure.

But what about the second line above?  Could it imply a parallel that the opposite of success is faithfulness?  Now that would be strange.

But if we stop to think long enough at this beginning of a new year, we can see there is a difference between “success” and “faithfulness.”

When it comes to setting goals, and maintaining them, and implementing them, I propose there is even a contrast between success and faithfulness.

Try as hard as we might to focus differently, it is almost impossible to steer away from the culture’s definition of success.

We are expected to do well, do better, financially.

We are expected to get ahead [get ahead of what, or whom?].

We are expected to be respected.

We are expected to be accepted.

We are expected to “get over it and move on.”

We are expected to act and speak of success.

We are expected to take ownership and tell what we gained for ourselves.

 

CONTRAST with this:

“What is required of a steward—just be found faithful.”

I believe in the principles of capitalism and free enterprise and private ownership of property.  But what if we took the above quote to base all resolutions on the principle of faithful stewardship in every part of our life?

Right now I could go through every one of the “I will” and “We are expected” lines above and write a commentary on each, from the perspective of faithfulness, instead of anxiety over success or fear of failure.

I guess “steward” is not a common word today.  It’s because the meaning is not common today.  “Steward” means we don’t own it—we’re taking care of it for Someone else.

And—“it” is everything in our lives, everything.  It’s not just all our stuff, or part of our stuff.  It’s our life, our health, our energy, our thoughts, our emotions, our soul, our relationships, our needs, our wants, our time, our future, our New Year’s Resolutions, and our real future after life seems to stop.

 

Perfect for January 1.2013:

“Offer to God thanksgiving;

Pay you vows [resolutions] to the most High;

Call upon Me in the day of trouble;

I will deliver you;

You will glorify Me.”

 

HAPPY NEW YEAR—IN THE PARTS THAT ARE FOR KEEPS

THE END OF . . .

THE END OF . . . this sentence is here whenever I type a period.

THE END OF . . . this year is here, and we have no control over that.

THE END OF . . . the Mayan calendar ?

THE END OF . . . the world ?

THE END OF . . . 2012 .

THE END OF . . . life as we know it ?

“THE END OF . . . all things is at hand.”

THE END OF . . . my life ?

THE END OF . . . the love of my life.

THE END OF . . . the life of my love ?

THE END OF . . . living ?

THE END OF . . . really living ?

THE END OF . . . meaning ?

THE END OF . . . promises ?

THE END OF . . . dreams ?

THE END OF . . . money.

THE END OF . . . debt ?

THE END OF . . . suffering.

THE END OF . . . evil.

THE END OF . . . tyranny.

THE END OF . . . faith ?  (someday)

THE END OF . . . hope ?  (someday)

THE END OF . . . love ?  (never)

“Now these three remain:  faith, hope, love; but the greatest of these is love.”     —–His Book

Someday we won’t need faith anymore.

Someday we won’t need hope anymore.

Someday we will have love forever—we can start today.

(Please read    “LOVE PRAYER”   on this site  3-10-12)

PERSONAL AGAIN

For me, Christmas this year will be getting together with my children who are in the state, over New Year’s weekend.  That may explain some of my deeper reflections the past several days.

So, I was working alone on my trailer brakes with some mechanical challenges and severe cold weather, while most people were with family.  Yesterday I may have gone too long without eating and was eligible for a migraine, which hit during the night.  I didn’t want to get out of the warm bed, and my medicine was in another building.

While I was lying there, I realized I was transitioning from a dream where I was sharing all-important things of life with my children—things I want them to remember when I’m gone.  But I so much want them to catch this now, so I can know I made a difference in their lives in the parts that are for keeps.

Some of those reflections are lost, as is the case daily.  I don’t get to record a lot of the insights that come, and that is hard.  But here is part of what I hope to share at the awesome meal this weekend.  (You won’t find better eating at a restaurant—several amazing cooks, and my daughter has a dream cooking store)

 

The common table prayer, expanded:

COME—Jesus said, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-loaded, and I will give you rest.”  And we say, “Come to our table, come to our family, come to our hearts and lives.”

COME, LORD—“One day every knee will bow;     One day every tongue will confess, ‘You are Lord.’      Still the greatest treasure remains     For those who gladly choose You now.”  The choice today will not be open long.

COME, LORD JESUS—His name means “Savior,” because He saves us from our sins.  That too is by invitation only—by invitation accepted only.

COME, LORD JESUS, BE OUR GUEST—“Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him, and have supper with him.”  It is my greatest desire that each of us individually invites this Guest and makes Him welcome, today, and permanently.

COME, LORD JESUS, BE OUR GUEST, AND LET YOUR GIFTS—Thanks for the food, thanks for the friendships within family and others, thanks for provision, thanks for Your love, thanks for Jesus, thanks for the offer of salvation, thanks for all the gifts that come from You alone.

COME, LORD JESUS, BE OUR GUEST, AND LET YOUR GIFTS TO US BE BLESSED—We don’t deserve Your blessings.  We stop to recognize that all we have comes from You—not our own doing.

COME, LORD JESUS, BE OUR GUEST, AND LET YOUR GIFTS TO US BE BLESSED, AMEN.—See the little baby     Amen.     Lying in a manger     Amen.     On Christmas morning.     Amen.     Amen.     Amen.

And everybody that believes in Jesus says,

AMEN !

‘TWAS THE DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS

I’m a writer, but not a poet, so I read a few items on the internet with the above title.  Bottom line—check out the one at “The Foundry” from The Heritage Foundation.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . .this morning J.J.Jasper on American Family Radio mentioned that nothing clears out faster than a circus the day after it’s over, except for Christmas the day after.    That has often bothered me.  Others must feel the same way, because you see some Christmas lights for a week after.  But, for the most part, never a hint of Christmas in a business or public place.

I believe this reflects the true meaning of Christmas—missing in commercial, material pursuits before the “holiday.”  If that is all of your Christmas, you put it away as fast as you can December 26, because you have nothing left to gain after the day.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . that was nice—in fact, it was wonderful.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . we had fun—and food—and then some.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . reality returns—back to work and worry.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . it’ll take a few days to recover—understatement—name the category.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . there’s no sign of Christmas, except for the return lines for stuff you don’t need or don’t like.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . and . . . did I miss something?

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . THAT’S ALL, FOLKS.

NO !   NO !   NO !   Please don’t let that happen to you.  Baby Jesus didn’t disappear the day after Christmas.  His purpose here had only begun.  He changed people’s lives for years.  And then you know how His life ended—but it didn’t end.  That part of His job was done, “IT IS FINISHED.”  But even then His work was not done.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . that is only the beginning of the story

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . why hasn’t He come to fix everything?

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and . . . AND

. . . He’s waiting—–for you—–to follow Him, to sign up today to join the crowd forever in heaven, to ask Him, “Jesus, please write my name in Your Book, today.”

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and

. . . and Jesus says your name, and then He says, “Come to Me.”

 

By the way, did you ever see the church sign that said, “NOW OPEN BETWEEN CHRISTMAS AND EASTER”?

 

Do check out the  ‘Twas the Day After Christmas”  poem at “The Foundry” from The Heritage Foundation.

“O HOLY NIGHT”

What is tonight for you?

What is tonight for me?

If you’ve read my writing for awhile, you will know what to expect as I answer the question for me.  But I’ll also share what you may not expect.

(to be continued shortly)

I’m back, six hours later, to continue.

What is tonight for me?

I

AM

BABY

STORY

FAMILY

EMOTION

ACTIVITIES

DIFFERENCE?

I

AM

Did you know that God identifies Himself as “I AM” ?

For me, tonight is about a God who is big enough to become a BABY and still be in charge of all creation.

Tonight is about the STORY of all history, because it’s all His-story.

For everyone, tonight is about FAMILY.  For this one evening, everybody puts everything else aside to be with family.

Tonight is EMOTION—indeed.  There is a month of buildup and then, tonight.  For many tonight meets the expectation and anticipation, and it’s the emotion highlight of the year.  Some get blindsided tonight, with less than favorable relationships, or without relationships.  It is real.  It is real tough.

So what can you do?  ACTIVITIES  help, much better than just sitting.  But busy-ness comes to a stop on this night, and reality sets in.

What makes the DIFFERENCE tonight between joy and celebration for some, and loneliness and depression for others?

I AM is at the beginning and I AM is at the end of everything—the word tree above, this essay of reflection, festivities come and gone, food, fun, and football, full house, empty house, best of times, worst of times, friends and family,  or alone.

Life is full of cycles, and we actually need some of the ups and some of the downs to appreciate life.

What is tonight for me?  I’ll leave you with two thoughts:

one—–It is my desire to make a difference in your life, in the parts that are for keeps.  The broader my range of experiences, and yes, emotions this night, the better I am able to consider how you may feel, and then say something that makes a difference.

two—–Love never fails, from God.  Because He loves you and me, we have Christmas, and Good Friday, and Easter, and our own Resurrection Day if we come to Jesus now.

I know what it’s like to be alone on Christmas Eve years ago, and cry out to God, “WHY?” from an empty church parking lot five minutes after the service was over.  But I also know what it’s like to be alone right now this Christmas Eve, writing to encourage someone like you that

“. . . life is worth the living, just because He lives.”

“OUGHT TO” – – – “AIN’T GONNA HAPPEN”

What do you do when saying, “. . . ought to . . . ”   just isn’t good enough because it is never going to happen?

“The ‘president’ ought to do a whole bunch of things to save this country.  It isn’t going to happen because he doesn’t want to save this country.

Congress ought to stand up for principles and say “NO” to financial and moral disasters coming from White House policies.  It isn’t going to happen because they are mostly concerned about keeping their own disability checks coming.

Someone you know ought to hit rock bottom to recognize they need help.  For many, that will never happen—some keep it hidden, and some have crutches.

Some families fall through the cracks because people who could make a difference just say what those folks ought to do, but distance themselves from sticky involvement.

You know someone who needs help, but it isn’t going to happen.

So how do you answer the question at the top?  (What do you do when saying, “. . . ought to . . . ”   just isn’t good enough because it is never going to happen?)

When I say, “I ought to help this person,” and then I say, “I will help this person”—that’s where it starts (not in Washington).

Commit to saying,

“I will make a difference in someone’s life, in the parts that are for keeps.  I will say what no one else will say, and I will do what no one else will do.”

“LOVE COMES SOFTLY”

This is my all-time favorite series of movies.  There are ten DVD’s in all now, and I just finished watching all of them again (and that’s not just the second or third time . . .).

Michael Landon, Jr. followed his father’s footsteps (“Little House on the Prairie”) and wrote the screenplay for the first movie “Love Comes Softly”—based on the authentic and inspirational pioneer books by Janette Oke.

He knocked on doors in Hollywood for years before Hallmark finally agreed to make the first movie.  When it aired on TV, it broke all Hallmark records.  So now millions of us are blessed with eight sequential, moving stories of this extended family of faith and courage.  And now there are two prequels just as real and touching.

I guarantee that watching these movies will fix what your family needs, or keep alive the dreams that could be.

GIVE IN TO THE TODDLER, AND . . .

Give in to the toddler, and you will never stop giving in to the toddler.

Give in to the dictator, and you will never stop giving in to the dictator.

GUILT BY ASSOCIATION . . .

There has always been a significant factor in legal matters known as “guilt by association.”  Judicial rulings confirm that “bad company corrupts good . . .”

With the rise of analyzing everything psychologically in recent decades, we have a very real and troublesome twist on the reasonable conclusion of “guilt by association.”  It is now superseded and replaced with “guilt by accusation.”

Without my explaining, I’m sure you can easily come up with examples and applications in today’s world.  Here are some of mine:

ONE—–I first realized the application in marriage disputes and marriage counseling.  It is one of those handy tools that are easily employed to manipulate friends and professionals alike to take your side.  Just say that someone is controlling, and you gain immediate sympathy without evidence, and the other person is at a loss without defense.  Needless to say, that example is only the tip of the iceberg.

TWO—–“Intolerant” is perhaps the best tool or weapon to sling and make “guilt by accusation” stick.  Again, how do you defend against a charge of intolerance?

THREE—–“You don’t have the right to offend me” is another classic angle currently used to the point of absurdity.  Sadly, the courts have lost all sanity in bowing down to yet another wave of anti-God and anti-American ideology sweeping over this country—sweeping us away like a tsunami.

FOUR—–“Israel (or U.S.) military killed civilians” gets full press and ensuing international sentiment against the good guys.  Reality is—the other side is usually committing such atrocities more, by ten to one.

FIVE—–“We must be more reasonable and understanding with terrorists [who have all vowed to kill us].”  America’s unfounded guilt trip spread around the world the past four years is killing us now.

SIX—– Hate Crimes.  Thought Crimes.  (need I explain?)

SEVEN—–“Extremists are always wrong.”  (that would include Jesus)

EIGHT—–“You must limit your fight for life, family, and religious freedom to the democratic process and non-violence.  Anything more than that negates your cause—guilty, even if you just think or talk about it.”

—Where would that leave us with England 236 years ago?

—Where would that leave us with England 200 years ago?

—Where would that leave us with slavery 160 years ago?

—Where would that leave us with Germany 100 years ago?

—Where would that leave us with Germany and Japan 70 years ago?

—Now, where has that left us with God out of schools for 50 years?

—Now, where has that left us with killing a whole lot more babies than last Friday, for 40 years?

—Now, where has that left us with bowing to gay ‘rights’ for 30 years?

—Now, where does that leave us with the blitzkrieg dictatorship currently blowing up every single thing listed in this paragraph for 4 years?

—Now, where does this “guilt by accusation” (which we allow by free will, nationally and individually) leave us today, and tomorrow?

—Where does it leave the rest of our babies that are still alive?

—Where does it leave our marriages that are still God-ordained?

—Where does it leave our faith and freedom we still have to tell others about freedom from all guilt, with Jesus?

Is not this something worth fighting for, again, like others did for us?  What measures were they willing to use, for us?  What measures are we willing to use, for our children?

NINE—–Another example on the individual level, that affects the entire country:

This one explains the dramatic rise in child abuse for the past several decades.  We had an entire generation conditioned without authority and confidence in parenting.  They were told,

—“You don’t have the right to discipline with physical pain.”

—“You have to earn the respect of your children first.”

—“You have to reason with your children.”

—“If your children don’t act right, figure out what you are doing wrong.”

When parents start off feeling guilty and reluctant to discipline quickly enough to instill instant regret, they delay the inevitable.  Pressure builds and defiance escalates, and ultimately the parent lashes out abusively instead of authoritatively.

TEN—–Now the most volatile current “guilt by accusation”:

“Guns are the cause of violent crime.”  That gets a lot of mileage at a time like this.

Just say NO to gun control.  Don’t let anyone make you or anyone else feel guilty for owning guns.  It is what it means to be an American—FREE.

Gun control made last Friday’s horror possible, and all but one like it since 1950, and probably the next one.  Your gun could be the one to stop the next one.  Think about it.  Think about the lives you may be called to save, with deadly force.  You will be right before the Constitution, you will be right before your fellow citizens, and you will be right before God.

AND PRAY.

TELEMACHUS – – – TWO TRUE STORIES

First Story:

404 A.D.  A monk named Telemachus felt let by the Spirit of God to travel to Rome.  He found himself following the crowds heading to the Colosseum.  When he saw the horror of gladiators set to kill each other for the entertainment of the crowd, he was so moved with indignation that he jumped over the wall, confronted the gladiators, stood between them, and shouted, “In the name of Christ, forbear [stop].”  He was obviously attacked and fatally wounded.  But he kept repeating, “In the name of Christ, forbear,” until he died.

And the rest of the story—That was the last time gladiators fought in the Roman Colosseum.

 

Second Story:

In the late 1970’s I had a student named Katy Telemachus in my fourth grade class in Hollywood, Florida.  She was sweet, but frail because she needed a liver transplant.  The time came for a donor match, and the operation was successful (paid for entirely by her father, who owned an upscale restaurant in Ft. Lauderdale).  Katy’s life was transformed, and she became a happy, lively girl.  Her father showed his appreciation by treating us and the principal to a very special evening at the restaurant—a treasured memory.

And the rest of the story—A few years after we moved to Texas in 1990, we got a letter from friends in Florida, with a newspaper article.  It told of three teenagers robbing a man’s home, resulting in his murder.  Katy was one of the teenagers, and the man who was killed was her father.   I have no information since.